I’ve just done something I’ve very rarely had cause to do – remove a comment from my blog.
Truthfully, I am not so inundated with comments that this is likely to be a common occurrence, but, for the record, I have a low tolerance threshold for coarse language and decided that I won’t leave it on my blog.
I admit that I feel badly for erasing someone’s opinion, but civility and respect are important to me, so I am making space for them here as I am able.
It is your blog, so you decide what you wish there 😉
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Thanks for the vote of confidence, Irene.
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I know how you feel, but just like your own house this is your blog and you decide what stays or goes.
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Thanks, Tric. I know most people speak and write somewhat more – um, colorfully? – than I do, but I’m just not comfortable leaving that kind of language on my blog.
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As you know I seldom comment on your blog … I do read it but generally end up making my comments on fb… To day I am breaking that habit to say…. If you can’t post a coherent opinion with out resorting to swearing and coarse language then to quote Alice’s queen…. Off with your head… 🙂
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LOL, Norah! Thanks for the chuckle and thanks for reading my blog. I do appreciate it.
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Comments don’t appear on my blog before I approve them. Do you have the same settings?
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When I first started the blog, I did approve each comment, but changed the setting months ago so that comments could post more quickly, especially for readers who are on the opposite side of the world and are likely to be reading while I’m sleeping. I’m hoping today was a rare exception, so that I can keep my settings as they are.
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I’m with Tric – your blog is yours just as your home is. People should treat it with the level of respect you set here. You have no reason to feel bad.
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Thanks, Linda! I appreciate your support.
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True enough, Joanne. And I’m with the fellow readers who say your blog is your house … it’d be like someone coming in and putting something untoward and inconsiderate on your living room wall. 😉 You get to decide the tone of the conversation here (I’ve eliminated similarly inappropriate comments on my Sophia’s Children blog, though thankfully very infrequently too!). xoxo Jamie
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Thanks for your support, Jamie. I was a bit concerned that this person would come back looking to see if he had gotten a reaction to his comment, but, so far, so good.
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Your boundary is refreshing. In my job I’m around people who use obscene language without even thinking about it, as it’s a normal part of some sub cultures. I’ve learned to overlook it to a point, but tire of it. Your blog has an intelligent, respectful tone that I admire.Thank you for being you!
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Thanks, JoAnne! I know this language is common in some circles and can be used causally, but, in this case, its use was coupled with vitriol, which makes it even more disturbing to me.
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No room for that kind of negativity. Good job, Joanne!
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Do what is right for you. I’ve allowed commenters to chastise or denigrate me on several occasions, but I won’t abide rudeness to other commenters.
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Thanks. I can handle respectful disagreement. I’m not sure how I would handle someone denigrating me on my blog. I’m sorry that you have had that experience.
I spent a lot of time doing comments on articles about fracking during the years-long battle for a ban in NY. I initially tried to defend my comments, ignoring the personal attacks, but finally had to give up because it was stressing me out. I would still comment, but I would no longer look at replies to protect myself.
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I’ve pretended that I don’t understand what they’re saying. and ask for clarification, which has yet to come. I won’t waste any more time than that.
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Sounds like a good plan.
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Your blog, your rules Joanne. I think comments should reflect the tone of the blog. I have removed a couple comments, for the same reason.
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Thanks, Dan. I do sometimes forget that I am in charge here…
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