A few days ago, I wrote about how I was copying poems into the cloud and setting up my submissions database before leaving for Hawai’i.
I had even done two submissions and amazingly, I have already heard back from both of them.
The first, to an anthology about fracking, was a rejection.
The second, to the Silver Birch Press blog, was an acceptance! I had written a new poem for their June/July poetry series “All About My Name.” My title is “Becoming Joanne” and you can be sure that when it is published, I will send out a blog post here with the link!
I am planning to send out a big batch of submissions later this month, most of which will come back as rejections, but, for the moment, I’m batting .500, which is pretty sweet!
It seems that it should be the easiest thing in the word to graciously accept compliments. Someone says something nice about you or something you have done and you smile and say thank you.
Somehow though, if you tend to be the self-deprecating, or perfectionistic, or even the humble sort, it can be difficult not to go on with a “but” … it was really a team effort, or I made a mistake in the third movement, or it was just a little something – or it was nothing at all.
Sometimes, we don’t feel worthy of the compliment. It may help to look from the point of view of the complimenter instead of reflexively rejecting the substance of the compliment.
Next time, maybe, it will be just “Thank you.” With maybe an extension of the gratitude, like, “I’m so glad you liked it.” “It means so much to me to hear you say that.”
A gracious acceptance of the compliment with no “but”s.
The prompt for Linda’s Stream of Consciousness Saturday this week is: “compliment/complement.” Anyone can join in! Find out how here: http://lindaghill.com/2015/05/01/the-friday-reminder-and-prompt-for-socs-may-215/
Healing feels like a life theme. There have been a lot of health challenges in our family for a lot of years, some big, some small. The small ones seem to heal; the big ones – not so much. Though the situation becomes less acute, full healing isn’t possible. It’s hard…
So, instead of full physical healing, we have to work on spiritual healing, which involves coming to a state of peace and acceptance. It’s also hard, a constant challenge, but the key to moving forward in a positive direction.
This is part of Linda’s Stream of Consciousness Saturdays: http://lindaghill.com/2015/01/16/the-friday-reminder-and-prompt-for-socs-january-1715/ Please join in!
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Also, Linda is hosting Just Jot It January. Join in with this, too! http://lindaghill.com/2015/01/01/just-jot-it-january-pingback-post-and-rules/